There is nothing new under the sun they say and I believe. Why am I in shock most of the time when I hear these things that go on behind the happy faces we put up? It's bemusing to know that some people are going through hell but will rather keep up a facade because they have lived a lie for too long and/or the pain that accompanies their reality is so deep that they will rather keep up the appearances than have to face their fears .
Now,i am going from shocked to impressed by this man's decision to face his fears and make right his wrongs. How he's going to fix this situation is what i'm yet to figure out..........oh! I almost forgot that's why you are also here,let's help figure out the best solution together. *smiles*
Here is his DLS........
"About 13years ago, he met a lady he fell in love with and he didn't hesitate to marry her immediately . They lived a comfortable life and were happy together until they experienced some serious financial crisis. He thought it was sudden and should be tackled spiritually since all of his manly wisdom to make ends meet had failed and his unborn children were on the way at the time.
This man decided to go for spiritual direction from a pastor a friend had told him about. The pastor told him the only way to end his misery was to leave the country without the knowledge of his wife till he finds his feet.........(whatever that means).
He told only his parents about what the pastor had told him and did exactly has he was told. His wife in Nigeria got worried,reported him missing to the police,went to his parents and friends but no one attested to knowing his where about. His parents told her repeatedly that they know he is alive but that they also haven't heard from him and didn't know more than she did.
His wife had their babies (a set of twin) and raised them without a word from his family for over 10years. She decided to move on after he called a year later to tell her that he was alive,she didn't re-marry but she is comfortable and even has a house of her own now he said.
The man on the other hand had been living in England as a single man with no history of family to his friends for the past 11years. He worked very hard and sent money home to his parents but didn't make enough to invest. Realising that his life hasn't been better of since tha past years, he wants his family back and thought it would be better late than never to retrace his steps but he doesn't even have the courage to dial her number."
What will you do as a man in his shoes? If you are the woman in this story,will you take him back?
He needs better cane to flog his butts.... lol woe unto that pastor who separate a man from his family with prophecy who knows where it's from. I hope he has made all d millions as prophesied . I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but how can u not tell your pregnant wife u were leaving 9ja for wherever because pastor say u shouldn't. We women sha we take plenty shit from men. I don't think any Man can take that. Thank God he realised his mistake. But I wonder how he will make up to his wife and kids for 10ish years. He should seek God's face or ask d pastor....lol sorry for being sarcastic
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