Saturday 14 November 2015

Help! I'm Married To A Nympho'

Hi You, 
Why a lot of people do not like issues like this discussed or addressed still baffle me. For crying out loud,what's the big deal? Of course, it's a big deal because it is an abnormality but how we stigmatise or refer to a nymphomaniac mostly with disgust is both sickening and appalling. Don't mean to be judgmental but I personally think a man should be grateful if he's married to a nymphomaniac, it just means that he'll get to have so much sex that cheating will become impossible for him. Lol.............dude,don't you agree with me? I bet some of you share my opinion (there is a big smile on my face right now).
You already know what "Nymphomania " is as an efiwe that you are, but for the sake of the few who have probably never heard the word,let me help you with at least a dictionary meaning. Nymphomania refers to uncontrollable or abnormally strong sexual desire in a woman. It can also be called hypersexuality or compulsive sexual behavior. I'm not here to lecture you o so,pls contact google for more information.*wink*


Today's DLS is about a man who got married to this beautiful young woman and after a few years together, he met another woman whom he claimed to have fallen in love with and when asked why he has decided to break his marriage vows, his excuse was that he was tired of being with his wife who is a Nympho. *eyesrolling*
How is that even an excuse to cheat? Isn't that a reason for him to be satisfied? So I thought out loud as I was given the gist.
The lady he was asking out,happened to know his wife who she said is as beautiful has ever even after four kids and has no past history of waywardness since she had known her, therefore she found the news hard to believe and insisted that she would have nothing to do with him especially since she was in a committed relationship and was a sexually active person herself though not abnormally. 

This is the 3rd time i've heard men make excuses about their spouse being a nympho to either dump them or cheat on them. I've even heard about a young lady that was gang raped by a group of friends in my University days in the name of wanting to know her limit as she was tagged 'Nympho'.
Nymphomania is not an incurable disorder. So, men should please stop making unreasonable excuses to be irresponsible. The only help you need is to help your spouse. Sorry if it looks like i'm taking sides today, I know I can sometimes appear to be a feminist to the core. Don't get me wrong,i feel your pain if your cap hurts and it's understandable that we get scared sometimes and want to run away but how will you feel if you were to be in her shoes. I can't ask you not to run or find an escape route, all i'm saying is reconsider helping the Nympho you're married to.

A lot of men don't even know how to make love to a woman and when they can't satisfy one,they fail to acknowledge the fact that they are incapable. Guess I should take this opportunity to inform you that women are different and require different/various skills to meet their individual needs. Maybe you aren't doing the right thing yet,find out what will work for your spouse sexual needs and get it done. Not all tagged nymphos are actually having a disorder.

2 comments:

  1. Men tho...How would you cheat on your wife because she likes too much sex? The woman you're cheating with is also for the purpose of sex, isn't it? Besides not every sexual activity in this 21st century requires penetration #justsaying so please think of a better excuse other than that because wanting sex all the time only becomes a problem when she does it with other people and as that isn't the case, Oga you have no excuse.

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